i am so depressed, i had been a medical student long enuff to suddenly feel this.. my emotions are suppressed with my feelings of betrayal, hatred, envy and ignorance. if only i could get sum time out of this and continue my life wer i left it.. that wud be after my SPM.. have fun, hanging out with frens, do all the crazy stuff and carry my own problems without burdening anyone. Being with someone just makes you crazy, cranky, bitchy and wat not annoying,.. it seems that doing everything just doesnt pays off.. wat else shud u do to get attention? d'oh, go out with sum random guys while u r still on ur bf's bed? well, let me tell u,.. that doesnt really work.. n in my case, i dont think it will.. thinking bout it, i think i hav the rite to be pampered.. being in his place for awhile, feeling tired, just waiting for him to come home, cant he just spare some time for me? it makes me think if i am trying too hard in my relationship. maybe i should just let it go,.. go with the flow,. i mean, there's nothing to lose... if he's not around anymore, i could just get back with my ex or be with sumone else.. and i bet he doesnt care.. he just thinks that i'm a cranky bitch.. well, i dont give a damn if u r leaving me.. really, i dont!
why is it so hard to be in love and to feel that u r being loved. its not supposed to be this hard. how can an enjoyable and heavenly feeling become so cold and full of hatred.. i just feel like crying. i know it doesnt solve anything but it makes forget about it for awhile if not at all. i just wan a happy love life, being happy as long as i am with him, regardless our distance.
OR maybe he has someone else? someone who makes him really happy,.. being miles away just makes their love stronger? and when i'm around, he just wanna cuddle and be with someone, it doesnt really matter if it's me.
all this free time just makes me think, and thinking makes me assume things, and my assumptions r always bad ones..
if only i know wat is going on, if only he shares stuff with me just like he shares 'em with his frens, sumtimes i feel like a worthless, useless biatch who just knows how to nag and piss him off.. maybe i AM a bad gf and i'm just giving him bad vibes.. and maybe i should just let him b..
maybe i just dont deserve him.. Dont I?
have u ever thought if ur bf is cheating on u?hahaha.. perhaps everyone is cheating, it's just how n where differs it. if u are on a diet but u ate junk foods, u r definitely cheating your diet plan, if u are training for a marathon but u skip one training day, u r definitely cheating on ur effort. if u work hard to be a medical student but u hung over and let the days passed meaninglessly, u r cheating on ur future!!.. so in every aspect in life, ppl tend to cheat not only on others but also on themselves... ironic isn't it?haha...
back to the main issue... bout cheating bfs.. urm,..how do u know he's not cheating? i presume, the main keys to success and everlasting long distance relationship are:
--->trust each other
--->avoid fussing about small things
--->understanding both side's priority (career, routine, hobbies, etc)
--->forgive small mistakes
--->learn to give and take
--->be more considerate
--->get to know more bout your spouse
--->don't always depend on instinct (it could be wrong esp wen influence by ur mood)
--->try to join in activities
--->get rid of ur ego
--->grow up!be more matured!n independent dude!!!!
this is based on my life, my love, my time and sharing of the dreadful and at times joyful long distance relationship..... :)
There are times in our life where v feel like its useless. Doing anything will only make things worst. When u would just wanna lay back on your bed, emptying your thoughts and letting it linger. The truth is you just wanna run away from everything, cause u think its worthless. Putting all those effort, knowing that it'll only end up bad. No matter what u do, no matter how different u wanna change things, no matter where or how or who u do it with, it doesn't matter... Cause with u, everything is a mess. I've been spending the past week watching Monk, PSych, Charmed and Grey's anatomy.. it was not gonna stop,..the marathon. unless i pull myself together and start studying which in my case is something hard to do.. I've been a bummer.. nodding on my fates of losing, crash and burn with my feelings. I thought of just going home to my family, being with them makes this much easier. Surely I have to endure my dad's nags and my mom's attitude but still all that comparing to my life right now,.. will be the one thing that I really wanna face. And now i'm putting up words to make sentences in my blog.. when i should be studying for my clinical reasoning and minor surgery... well,..dont be astonished by it yet.. it's really un'cool'.. ciao..
Love is a passionate feeling that people feels for each other.. it can be between anyone in d world.. frens, lovers, families.. but wen it comes to a relationship, love affair, etc.. watever u wanna call it,.. v tend to get nervous wen we have to choose,.. take a fren of mine for instance,.. she is happily dating to a 31 yo guy,.. yet,..she still contacts her ex... a 26 yo cute guy,..ahakss.. and in her spare time,..she still talks n flirts to others.. occassionally,..it shud b ok.. but wat will happen wen one of them ask for her hand in marriage? c, wen v started the whole 'couple' thing,.. v never actually tot tht v'll end up being together forever for d rest of our lives.. v may thought tht it was just for fun and,..if the relationship turns out well and gives you 8 out of 10 good points out of it,.. u'd surely continue the relation.. but if its not,..u'll still think wats d best for u... put away the interest of ur couple.. hahahha.. well,.. it may sound selfish.. but to stay happy.. thts wat people always do.. so there's nothing wrong about tht.. and always remember tht if anyone should sacrifice in the relationship,..its NEVER you..
people always correlates love and sacrifices.. thts BULLSHIT!! everyone should have their goals in life and prioritize them,.. never take any of them for granted for anything else.. ESP a relationship... cos once u made a bad choice and u thought back... what if... u had let him go and go on with ur dreams... u will surely regret all d sacrifices u made..(kuang'kuang'kuang')
so i was browsing on this fine day,..and guess wat i ran into?gegeggege...
an article similar to this... “Is this man or woman worth my time? Are we going tomake each other better for being with each other, or doeshe or she make me feel something I have never felt before?”If it’s not the exact internal questions, they certainly are notfar off. If our intentions are truly built on a “good heartedfoundation” then not hiding the truth about ourselves whenmeeting others is a simple task. We can love who we areinside and then proceed to market that love so someoneelse can enjoy it.However, we hide and not reveal what we know are ournegatives without working internally on them beforeproceeding into another relationship, where we can injectthem all over again. If we ironed out our problems beforedelving full fledged into another committed relationship,then we wouldn’t have to “put our best foot forwardbecause we would have both feet already firmly on theground.” It all starts with you and taking personal accountability foryour own heart and what you truly seek in a perspectivemate. False impressions of all positives about yourself put adishonest spin into a relationship from the get go and pointit for a tenuous at best, future. When you get to know yourself inside and out and whatyou truly want from a relationship is when you will know ifa relationship has a future or not.Work on eliminating your negative personality traits beforeever pursuing a committed relationship. Then attempt toefficiently read your perspective mate's honest intentionsbefore you invest too much time. If done correctly, youwill have increased your odds exponentially for a long termrelationship and stacked them confidently in your favor.
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